Bezonders, believe it or not, there are some issues which you would wanna discuss in an English language community, forum, or blog, not limiting your search down to just Russian-speaking audience (or your specific theme community).
Speaking of this thread's theme, - I am not quite sure if a native English speaker's mother tongue should become a criterion for choosing a partner, especially if you're up to build a serious relationship. If the language matters to you, be prepared to get upset with the fact that your prospective partner will not know thousands of things which form your own cultural background, say, Cheburashka, Leonid Gayday's movies or your favorite songs, – and vice versa. If you can live with that or you believe your prospective partner will be really into learning your Cheburashkas, go for it.
IMHO, it is the whole complex cultural setting that helps you out in getting a language under your skin.